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		<title>Reaching the Final Judgment in a California Divorce</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[By Wallace Francis This is Part 4 of a four-part series on how a divorce moves through the California courts. Part 1 covered the petition and the response, Part 2 covered financial disclosures, and Part 3 covered motions and temporary orders. This final part covers the judgment. Every divorce case ends with a judgment. The  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>By Wallace Francis</em></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>This is Part 4 of a four-part series on how a divorce moves through the California courts. Part 1 covered the petition and the response, Part 2 covered financial disclosures, and Part 3 covered motions and temporary orders. This final part covers the judgment.</em></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Every divorce case ends with a <strong>judgment</strong>. The judgment is the court&#8217;s final order. It ends the marriage, divides the property and debts, and sets out the long-term orders for custody, child support, and spousal support. There are several ways to get there, and the path a case takes has a big effect on how long it lasts and how much it costs.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Four Main Paths</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Most California divorces end in one of four ways.</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li><strong>Default without an agreement.</strong> The Respondent never filed a Response, and the court decides the case based on what the Petitioner asked for in the Petition.</li>


<li><strong>Default with an agreement.</strong> The Respondent did not file a Response, but the spouses signed a written agreement that becomes part of the judgment.</li>


<li><strong>Uncontested with an agreement.</strong> Both spouses took part in the case and reached a full written settlement.</li>


<li><strong>Trial.</strong> The spouses could not agree on one or more issues, and a judge decides those issues after hearing evidence.</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Couples who have been married a short time, have no children, and have very little property or debt may qualify for a simpler process called a <strong>summary dissolution</strong>. It has strict requirements and is not available in most cases.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Settlement</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Most divorce cases settle before trial. Spouses can negotiate directly, through their lawyers, or with the help of a private mediator. Many courts also hold settlement conferences, where a judge or an experienced volunteer attorney meets with both sides and helps them find middle ground.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When the spouses agree, the terms are written into a <strong>Marital Settlement Agreement</strong>. This agreement usually covers the following.</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>How property will be divided, including the house, bank accounts, retirement accounts, vehicles, and any business.</li>


<li>Who will pay which debts.</li>


<li>Child custody and a parenting plan.</li>


<li>Child support and spousal support.</li>


<li>Attorney fees and any other issues in the case.</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Read the agreement carefully before signing it. Once a judgment is entered, the division of property is generally final and is very difficult to change later. It is also important that both spouses have exchanged their final financial disclosures, or have properly waived them in writing, before the agreement is signed.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Judgment Paperwork</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">A judgment is submitted to the court on a set of forms. The main ones are the following.</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>The Judgment (form FL-180).</li>


<li>A Declaration for Default or Uncontested Dissolution (form FL-170), in default and uncontested cases.</li>


<li>The signed Marital Settlement Agreement, if there is one.</li>


<li>Attachments for custody, child support, spousal support, and property, as needed.</li>


<li>A Notice of Entry of Judgment (form FL-190).</li>


<li>Proof that the required financial disclosures were served.</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Court staff review the paperwork before a judge signs it. If something is missing or incorrect, the court may reject the package and send it back to be fixed. That can add weeks or months to the process, so it pays to get the paperwork right the first time. How long it takes to get a judgment signed varies from county to county.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Trial</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">If the spouses cannot agree, the court will set the case for trial. There are no juries in California divorce cases. A judge hears the evidence and makes the decision. Each side may present testimony, documents, and expert witnesses, such as real estate appraisers, business valuation experts, or forensic accountants. Before trial, the court usually requires each side to file a statement of the issues and the evidence they plan to present.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Trials take time and can be expensive. They also put the final decision in the hands of someone who does not know the family. For those reasons, trial is usually saved for issues the spouses cannot resolve any other way. Sometimes the spouses settle most issues and only try the one or two that remain.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Ending the Marriage Before Everything Is Decided</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In some cases, one spouse wants to be legally single before all the money issues are worked out. The court can <strong>bifurcate</strong>, or separate, the issue of marital status and end the marriage first, while property and support issues continue. The court usually adds conditions to protect the other spouse, such as keeping health insurance coverage in place and protecting rights to retirement benefits.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">When the Marriage Actually Ends</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The judgment states the date the marriage ends. That date can be no earlier than six months after the Respondent was served or first appeared in the case. Even if the judgment is signed earlier, the spouses remain legally married until that date. A person should not remarry until the date shown in the judgment has passed.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">After the Judgment</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Getting the judgment signed is not the last step. The terms still have to be carried out. This often means the following.</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>Transferring titles to real estate and vehicles.</li>


<li>Refinancing a mortgage or loan to remove the other spouse&#8217;s name.</li>


<li>Dividing retirement plans, which often requires a separate court order sent to the plan.</li>


<li>Updating beneficiaries on life insurance and retirement accounts.</li>


<li>Updating a will or trust.</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Keep in mind that a divorce judgment is an order between the two spouses. It does not bind banks or other creditors. If a former spouse fails to pay a joint debt that was assigned to them, the creditor may still try to collect from you.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Some orders can change after the judgment. Child custody and child support can be modified when circumstances change. Spousal support can usually be modified too, unless the spouses agreed otherwise. The division of property, on the other hand, is generally final.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Closing Thoughts</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">A divorce follows a predictable series of steps. It begins with the petition and response, moves through financial disclosure, may include requests for temporary orders, and ends with a judgment. Knowing what to expect at each stage can make the process less stressful and can help you make better decisions along the way.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Full Series</h2>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li><a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/how-a-california-divorce-starts/">Part 1. How a California Divorce Starts</a></li>


<li><a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/financial-disclosures-in-a-california-divorce/">Part 2. Financial Disclosures in a California Divorce</a></li>


<li><a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/motions-and-temporary-orders-in-a-california-divorce/">Part 3. Motions and Temporary Orders in a California Divorce</a></li>


<li>Part 4. Reaching the Final Judgment in a California Divorce (this article)</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>This article provides general information about California divorce law. It is not legal advice, and reading it does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every case is different, and the rules and local court practices can change. If you are facing a divorce, speak with a family law attorney about your own situation.</em></p><p>The post <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/reaching-the-final-judgment-in-a-california-divorce/">Reaching the Final Judgment in a California Divorce</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com">Northern California Attorney Wallace Francis</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>By Wallace Francis</em></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>This is Part 3 of a four-part series on how a divorce moves through the California courts. Part 1 covered the petition and the response, and Part 2 covered financial disclosures. This part covers motions and temporary orders. Part 4 covers the final judgment.</em></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">A divorce usually takes many months, and sometimes longer. During that time, life does not stop. The children still need a schedule. The mortgage still needs to be paid. One spouse may have much less income than the other. When spouses cannot agree on how to handle these things while the case is going on, either one can ask the court to make <strong>temporary orders</strong>. Lawyers often call this part of the case &#8220;motion practice.&#8221;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">What You Can Ask For</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In a California family law case, a motion is usually made with a form called a <strong>Request for Order</strong> (form FL-300). Common requests include the following.</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>Child custody and a parenting time schedule.</li>


<li>Child support.</li>


<li>Temporary spousal support.</li>


<li>Attorney fees and costs, so that both spouses have a fair chance to be represented when one has more money than the other.</li>


<li>Who may live in the family home or use a vehicle.</li>


<li>Who will pay certain debts or bills.</li>


<li>Orders about property, such as keeping funds in an account until the case is over.</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Domestic violence restraining orders use a separate set of forms and have their own process.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">How a Request for Order Works</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The person making the request fills out the Request for Order and attaches a <strong>declaration</strong>. A declaration is a written statement of facts signed under penalty of perjury. It explains what is happening and why the requested orders make sense. If the request involves support or attorney fees, a current Income and Expense Declaration (form FL-150) must be included.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The papers are filed with the court, and the clerk sets a hearing date. The papers must then be served on the other side. In most cases, they must be served at least 16 court days before the hearing, and more time is added if they are served by mail. Court days do not include weekends or court holidays, so the actual time is longer than it sounds.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The other spouse can file a <strong>Responsive Declaration to Request for Order</strong> (form FL-320). It is generally due at least nine court days before the hearing. The person who made the request may then file a reply, generally at least five court days before the hearing. Each side should file its own current Income and Expense Declaration when support or fees are at issue.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Custody Requests and Family Court Services</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When custody or parenting time is in dispute, California law requires the parents to meet with a counselor or mediator from the court&#8217;s Family Court Services before the hearing. The goal is to help the parents reach an agreement that works for the children. If they cannot agree, in many counties the counselor will make a written recommendation to the judge. The judge does not have to follow it, but it often carries real weight.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Support Requests</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Child support in California is based on a statewide guideline formula. The two main factors are each parent&#8217;s income and the share of time each parent has with the children. Temporary spousal support is often calculated using a formula as well. Long-term spousal support at the end of the case is decided differently, based on a list of factors set out in the Family Code, such as the length of the marriage and each spouse&#8217;s ability to earn a living. Support orders can often be made effective back to the date the request was filed.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Hearing</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Family law hearings are usually short. Judges have busy calendars and often have many cases set for the same morning. In most cases, the judge has already read the papers before the hearing begins. That means the written declarations matter a great deal. A clear, factual, and respectful declaration tends to be far more effective than a long or angry one. In some situations, the court may allow live testimony, but the papers usually do most of the work.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Many requests are settled before the hearing. The two sides may reach an agreement, write it down as a <strong>stipulation</strong>, and submit it to the judge to sign. This saves time and money and gives both sides more control over the result.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Emergency Orders</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Some situations cannot wait for a regular hearing date. Examples include a real risk that a child will be taken out of state, or a situation that puts a child in immediate danger. In those cases, a party may ask for emergency orders, which are called <strong>ex parte</strong> orders. The other side generally must be given notice by 10 a.m. the court day before the request is presented, unless giving notice would cause harm. Courts expect a strong showing before they will make emergency orders, and they do not treat ordinary disagreements as emergencies.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">After the Hearing</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">After the judge decides, the court&#8217;s orders are written up in a document called the <strong>Findings and Order After Hearing</strong> (form FL-340), along with attachments for custody, support, or other issues. Temporary orders remain in effect until the court changes them or until the final judgment replaces them. Temporary orders can often shape what happens later. A parenting schedule that is working well, for example, may become the starting point for the final custody arrangement.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">What Comes Next</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Temporary orders keep the family going while the case moves forward. The goal, though, is a final resolution. Part 4 of this series explains how a case reaches a final judgment, either through settlement or through trial.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Full Series</h2>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li><a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/how-a-california-divorce-starts/">Part 1. How a California Divorce Starts</a></li>


<li><a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/financial-disclosures-in-a-california-divorce/">Part 2. Financial Disclosures in a California Divorce</a></li>


<li>Part 3. Motions and Temporary Orders in a California Divorce (this article)</li>


<li><a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/reaching-the-final-judgment-in-a-california-divorce/">Part 4. Reaching the Final Judgment in a California Divorce</a></li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>This article provides general information about California divorce law. It is not legal advice, and reading it does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every case is different, and the rules and local court practices can change. If you are facing a divorce, speak with a family law attorney about your own situation.</em></p><p>The post <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/motions-and-temporary-orders-in-a-california-divorce/">Motions and Temporary Orders in a California Divorce</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com">Northern California Attorney Wallace Francis</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[By Wallace Francis This is Part 2 of a four-part series on how a divorce moves through the California courts. Part 1 covered the petition and the response. This part covers financial disclosures. Part 3 covers motions and temporary orders, and Part 4 covers the final judgment. Once a divorce case is filed, both spouses  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>By Wallace Francis</em></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>This is Part 2 of a four-part series on how a divorce moves through the California courts. Part 1 covered the petition and the response. This part covers financial disclosures. Part 3 covers motions and temporary orders, and Part 4 covers the final judgment.</em></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Once a divorce case is filed, both spouses must share complete information about their finances. This is not optional, and it is not something the court will overlook. California law treats disclosure as one of the most important parts of the whole case. Any agreement or judgment about money and property depends on both sides knowing what there is to divide.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Why Disclosure Matters</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Under California law, spouses owe each other a duty of the highest good faith and fair dealing when it comes to their shared property. This is called a <strong>fiduciary duty</strong>. It does not end when the couple separates. It continues until the property has actually been divided. Part of that duty is being open and honest about all income, assets, and debts, including things that only one spouse has been managing.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Preliminary Declaration of Disclosure</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Each spouse must prepare and serve a <strong>Preliminary Declaration of Disclosure</strong>. The Petitioner must serve it at the time the Petition is filed or within 60 days after. The Respondent must serve it at the time the Response is filed or within 60 days after. The spouses cannot agree to skip this step.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The package usually includes the following.</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>A Declaration of Disclosure cover form (form FL-140).</li>


<li>A Schedule of Assets and Debts (form FL-142) or a Property Declaration (form FL-160), listing everything owned and owed, whether it is community property or separate property.</li>


<li>An Income and Expense Declaration (form FL-150).</li>


<li>Copies of all tax returns filed in the past two years.</li>


<li>A written statement of all important facts about the value and character of the property and debts, and about any investment or business opportunity that came up during the marriage.</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">These papers are served on the other spouse. They are not filed with the court. Instead, each spouse files a short form called a Declaration Regarding Service of Declaration of Disclosure (form FL-141), which tells the court that the disclosures were served.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Income and Expense Declaration</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The Income and Expense Declaration deserves special attention. It shows your income from every source, your deductions, your monthly expenses, and some basic information about your assets. You attach your recent pay stubs. Judges rely on this form when they decide child support, spousal support, and requests for attorney fees.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Courts expect this form to be current. As a general rule, an Income and Expense Declaration should have been completed within the past three months and should still reflect your actual situation. If your job, pay, or expenses change, a new one is needed. An old or inaccurate form can hurt your credibility and can lead to a hearing being delayed.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Final Declaration of Disclosure</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Before the case is settled or goes to trial, each spouse is also supposed to serve a <strong>Final Declaration of Disclosure</strong>. This updates the earlier disclosure and confirms the current values and facts. Unlike the preliminary disclosure, the spouses may agree in writing to waive the final disclosure (form FL-144). Even when the final disclosure is waived, both spouses still have a duty to share new information as it comes up. If something important changes while the case is going on, such as a new job, a bonus, or the sale of property, the other side must be told.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">What Happens When Someone Hides Something</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The consequences for failing to disclose can be serious. A court can order money sanctions against the spouse who failed to disclose. A court can also set aside a judgment that was based on incomplete or false information. In cases involving fraud, oppression, or malice, the court can award the entire value of a hidden asset to the other spouse. Hiding an asset is a gamble that often costs the person far more than the asset was worth.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Discovery</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Sometimes the disclosures are incomplete, or one spouse has reason to believe the other is not telling the full story. In that case, the law allows a set of formal tools called <strong>discovery</strong>. Common discovery tools include the following.</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>Form Interrogatories, which are standard written questions (form FL-145) that must be answered under oath.</li>


<li>Requests for Production, which ask the other side to hand over specific documents such as bank statements or business records.</li>


<li>Requests for Admission, which ask the other side to admit or deny specific facts.</li>


<li>Depositions, where a person answers questions under oath in front of a court reporter.</li>


<li>Subpoenas, which can get records directly from banks, employers, and other third parties.</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Discovery has strict deadlines. Written responses are usually due 30 days after the requests are served, with a few extra days added depending on how they were served. A spouse who misses the deadline can lose the right to object to the questions. If answers are incomplete, the two sides are expected to talk and try to work it out before asking the court to step in with a motion to compel.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Practical Tips</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Start gathering documents early. Helpful records often include the following.</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>Tax returns and W-2 or 1099 forms.</li>


<li>Recent pay stubs.</li>


<li>Bank, credit card, and investment statements.</li>


<li>Retirement account statements.</li>


<li>Mortgage statements and property tax bills.</li>


<li>Loan documents and vehicle titles.</li>


<li>Business records, if either spouse owns a business.</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Be careful and accurate. These forms are signed under penalty of perjury. If you do not know the value of something, it is better to say that and explain why than to guess. A complete and honest disclosure tends to make settlement easier and builds trust with the court.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">What Comes Next</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Disclosure takes time, and while it is happening, the family still has to function. Someone has to decide where the children will live and how the bills will be paid. When spouses cannot agree on these things, they can ask the court for temporary orders. Part 3 of this series explains how that works.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Full Series</h2>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li><a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/how-a-california-divorce-starts/">Part 1. How a California Divorce Starts</a></li>


<li>Part 2. Financial Disclosures in a California Divorce (this article)</li>


<li><a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/motions-and-temporary-orders-in-a-california-divorce/">Part 3. Motions and Temporary Orders in a California Divorce</a></li>


<li><a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/reaching-the-final-judgment-in-a-california-divorce/">Part 4. Reaching the Final Judgment in a California Divorce</a></li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>This article provides general information about California divorce law. It is not legal advice, and reading it does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every case is different, and the rules and local court practices can change. If you are facing a divorce, speak with a family law attorney about your own situation.</em></p><p>The post <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/financial-disclosures-in-a-california-divorce/">Financial Disclosures in a California Divorce</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com">Northern California Attorney Wallace Francis</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[By Wallace Francis This is Part 1 of a four-part series on how a divorce moves through the California courts. Part 1 covers the petition and the response. Part 2 covers financial disclosures. Part 3 covers motions and temporary orders. Part 4 covers the final judgment. In California, the legal name for a divorce is  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>By Wallace Francis</em></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>This is Part 1 of a four-part series on how a divorce moves through the California courts. Part 1 covers the petition and the response. Part 2 covers financial disclosures. Part 3 covers motions and temporary orders. Part 4 covers the final judgment.</em></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In California, the legal name for a divorce is a &#8220;dissolution of marriage.&#8221; The same steps apply to ending a registered domestic partnership. No two cases are the same, but most divorces follow the same basic path. One spouse files papers, the other spouse responds, both sides share financial information, the court makes temporary orders if needed, and the case ends with a judgment. This first article explains how the case gets started.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Who Can File</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">To file for divorce in California, at least one spouse must have lived in California for the last six months and in the county where the case is filed for the last three months. If you have not lived here long enough yet, you can file for legal separation and later change the case to a divorce once you meet the residency rule.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">California is a &#8220;no fault&#8221; state. You do not have to prove that your spouse did anything wrong. In almost every case, the reason given is &#8220;irreconcilable differences,&#8221; which simply means the marriage has broken down and cannot be fixed. One spouse cannot stop a divorce by refusing to agree to it.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Petition</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The spouse who starts the case is called the <strong>Petitioner</strong>. The other spouse is called the <strong>Respondent</strong>. The Petitioner starts the case by filing a form called the Petition (form FL-100) with the Superior Court in the county where they live.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The Petition gives the court basic facts about the marriage. These include the date of marriage, the date of separation, the names and birth dates of any children, and a general list of property and debts. It also tells the court what the Petitioner is asking for, such as child custody, child support, spousal support, division of property, attorney fees, or a return to a former name.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The date of separation is more important than many people expect. In general, money earned and property bought after the date of separation belong to the spouse who earned or bought them. If the two spouses disagree about that date, it can become one of the main issues in the case.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">If there are minor children, the Petitioner also files a Declaration Under Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (form FL-105). This form tells the court where the children have lived for the past five years. Along with the Petition, the Petitioner files a Summons (form FL-110) and pays a filing fee. A person who cannot afford the fee can ask the court for a fee waiver (form FW-001).</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Automatic Restraining Orders</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The back of the Summons contains a set of standard orders that apply to both spouses. They take effect for the Petitioner when the case is filed and for the Respondent when the papers are served. They stay in place until the final judgment or until the court changes them. In plain terms, these orders say that neither spouse may do the following without written agreement or a court order.</p>



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<li>Take the children out of California.</li>


<li>Sell, hide, give away, borrow against, or get rid of property, except for normal living expenses and ordinary business needs.</li>


<li>Cancel, cash out, or change health, life, auto, or other insurance, including the people named as beneficiaries.</li>


<li>Create or change certain transfers that happen at death, such as a trust or a beneficiary designation.</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">A spouse must also give notice to the other spouse before making any unusual large expense. These orders are meant to keep things stable while the case is going on. Breaking them can lead to serious consequences.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Serving the Papers</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">After filing, the Petitioner must make sure the Respondent receives copies of the papers. This is called <strong>service</strong>. The Petitioner cannot hand the papers over personally. Another adult who is at least 18 and is not a party to the case must do it. This can be a friend, a relative, a professional process server, or the sheriff.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In some cases, the papers can be mailed to the Respondent with a form called a Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt (form FL-117). Service by mail only counts if the Respondent signs and returns that form. After service, the person who served the papers fills out a Proof of Service of Summons (form FL-115), and it is filed with the court.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Six-Month Waiting Period</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">California has a waiting period. The earliest date a marriage can legally end is six months after the Respondent is served or first appears in the case, whichever happens first. This is a minimum, not a deadline. Many cases take longer than six months to finish. A judgment can be signed before the six months are up, but the marriage itself does not end until the waiting period is over.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Response</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Once served, the Respondent has 30 days to file a Response (form FL-120). If there are minor children, the Respondent also files form FL-105. The Respondent pays a filing fee or asks for a fee waiver, and then has the Response served on the Petitioner. Service of the Response is usually done by mail, again by an adult who is not a party, followed by a filed proof of service.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The Response lets the Respondent give their own version of the basic facts and ask for their own orders. For example, the Respondent may list a different date of separation or claim that a certain asset is their separate property. Filing a Response does not mean the case will turn into a fight. In many cases it simply makes sure both sides have a voice in the outcome.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">What Happens If There Is No Response</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">If the Respondent does not file a Response within 30 days, the Petitioner can ask the court to enter a <strong>default</strong>. Once a default is entered, the Respondent generally loses the right to take part in the case unless the court later agrees to set the default aside. The court can then make orders based on what the Petitioner asked for in the Petition.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Spouses who have already worked out an agreement sometimes choose to let a case go by default on purpose. That can be a sensible approach when the agreement is in writing and both sides understand it. Missing the deadline by accident is a very different situation. Spouses can agree in writing to give the Respondent more time to respond, and that is common when the two sides are talking.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">What Comes Next</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Once the Petition and Response are on file, the next step is the exchange of financial information. California requires both spouses to fully disclose their income, property, and debts. Part 2 of this series explains how that process works and why it matters so much.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Full Series</h2>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>Part 1. How a California Divorce Starts (this article)</li>


<li><a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/financial-disclosures-in-a-california-divorce/">Part 2. Financial Disclosures in a California Divorce</a></li>


<li><a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/motions-and-temporary-orders-in-a-california-divorce/">Part 3. Motions and Temporary Orders in a California Divorce</a></li>


<li><a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/reaching-the-final-judgment-in-a-california-divorce/">Part 4. Reaching the Final Judgment in a California Divorce</a></li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>This article provides general information about California divorce law. It is not legal advice, and reading it does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every case is different, and the rules and local court practices can change. If you are facing a divorce, speak with a family law attorney about your own situation.</em></p><p>The post <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/how-a-california-divorce-starts/">How a California Divorce Starts</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com">Northern California Attorney Wallace Francis</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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		<title>I Made Two AI Chatbots Argue About My Bar License. Here&#8217;s What Happened.</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[By Wallace Francis  It started as a research exercise and turned into something I have never seen described anywhere in the legal press: two competing artificial intelligence systems, from two competing companies, engaged in a substantive disagreement about whether my law practice was adequately protecting attorney-client privilege, with my bar license as the stakes. Claude  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"><em>By Wallace Francis </em></p>
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<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">It started as a research exercise and turned into something I have never seen described anywhere in the legal press: two competing artificial intelligence systems, from two competing companies, engaged in a substantive disagreement about whether my law practice was adequately protecting attorney-client privilege, with my bar license as the stakes.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Claude thought I had a problem. Gemini disagreed. Then Gemini agreed with Claude. Then they argued about my contract. The disagreement was real, the legal analysis was substantive, and by the end of the conversation I had learned more about AI and privilege than I had from anything else I had read on the subject.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Here is what happened, what they argued about, and what it means for every California attorney using AI tools right now.</p>
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<h2 class="text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold">The Setup</h2>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">The February 2026 ruling in <em>United States v. Heppner</em> sent me back to basics. It is the first federal court decision to hold that a client&#8217;s AI-generated documents are not protected by attorney-client privilege, and it raised immediate questions about what that meant for my practice and for the practices of every solo and small firm attorney in California.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I practice family law as a solo attorney. I use Google Workspace with Gemini, specifically the AI Ultra Access tier. My clients, like most clients in 2026, use AI constantly, including sometimes in connection with their legal matters.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">So I did what any attorney would do when confronting a new legal question: I researched it. The twist is that I used AI to do the research, which meant I was simultaneously using the tools I was researching, asking questions about the tools I was using, and eventually turning the tools against each other to see what happened.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">What happened was illuminating.</p>
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<h2 class="text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold">Round One: Claude Gets Cautious</h2>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I started with Claude because <em>Heppner</em> involved Claude specifically and I wanted to understand the ruling&#8217;s implications from the source, so to speak.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Claude&#8217;s analysis of <em>Heppner</em> was crisp and accurate. Senior U.S. District Judge Jed S. Rakoff had rejected privilege and work product protection on three independent grounds. First, Claude is not an attorney and cannot form a privileged relationship. Second, Anthropic&#8217;s consumer privacy policy destroys any reasonable expectation of confidentiality by reserving the right to disclose user data to third parties including governmental authorities. Third, the defendant&#8217;s attorneys had never directed him to use Claude. He acted entirely on his own initiative, which independently defeated the work product claim.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Claude was also clear about what the ruling left open. The court explicitly acknowledged that attorney-directed use on an enterprise platform with strong contractual confidentiality protections might present a materially different analysis. That acknowledgment is where the practical framework for AI use in legal practice begins.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">When I told Claude I was using Google Workspace with Gemini, Claude asked the question I should have been asking myself: had I actually verified what contractual protections governed my account, or was I relying on product representations?</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I told Claude I had gone through the same questions with Gemini directly, and that Gemini had confirmed the key protections. No training on my data, no human review, session data cleared after each conversation.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Claude&#8217;s response was pointed and, in retrospect, exactly right.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">&#8220;That&#8217;s a problem on a few levels,&#8221; Claude said. &#8220;You&#8217;ve been asking the tool that has a financial interest in your continued use of it whether you should trust it. That&#8217;s not a neutral source. Gemini&#8217;s answers about its own data practices are not legally reliable. It&#8217;s telling you what it knows about Google&#8217;s general policies, not what your specific contract says, not what is actually happening on the backend, and not what a court would find persuasive. It&#8217;s essentially marketing material dressed up as an answer.&#8221;</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Claude then asked whether I had actually read my Data Processing Agreement.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I had not.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Claude declined to simply retype its analysis for me to feed into Gemini, which I had asked it to do, on the grounds that Gemini confirming Claude&#8217;s analysis would not constitute independent verification of anything. &#8220;If you enter my analysis into Gemini and Gemini confirms it, you&#8217;ll feel reassured, but nothing will have actually changed. You&#8217;ll still have no verified contract, no written confirmation from a human at Google, and no document you can attach to a declaration if privilege is ever challenged.&#8221;</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">This was the moment I decided to do something I had not originally planned: take the argument directly to Gemini and see what happened.</p>
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<h2 class="text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold">Round Two: Gemini Responds</h2>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I shared Claude&#8217;s analysis with Gemini verbatim and asked for its assessment.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Gemini&#8217;s response was disarmingly candid.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">&#8220;Claude is playing the role of a very cautious, risk-averse senior law partner,&#8221; Gemini said, &#8220;and that point is professionally sound for an attorney.&#8221;</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Gemini agreed with Claude on every substantive legal point that mattered. It acknowledged that its own responses do not constitute binding representations from Google LLC. It acknowledged that a court would look to the written contract, not the chatbot&#8217;s sidebar. It agreed that the distinction between what the technology does and what the company is legally bound to do is real and legally significant. It even agreed that asking an AI to verify its own trustworthiness is a circular exercise that does not help an attorney&#8217;s legal standing.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Where Gemini pushed back was narrow. It characterized Claude as being somewhat dramatic and argued that Google Workspace customers are covered by a real Data Processing Agreement. They just typically haven&#8217;t located or saved it. Gemini then walked me through exactly where to find it in the Admin Console.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Two AI systems from competing companies had now told me the same thing: stop relying on AI representations and go find the actual contract.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I went and found it.</p>
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<h2 class="text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold">Round Three: The Contract Dispute</h2>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">This is where things got genuinely interesting.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I uploaded my Google Cloud Data Processing Addendum to Claude and asked for an analysis. Claude read it carefully and identified what it characterized as a critical missing piece. The addendum covers Google Workspace generally but may not specifically cover Gemini, which could be classified as an Additional Product that the addendum explicitly excludes from coverage. Section 5.3 of the document states that the addendum does not apply to the processing of personal data in connection with Additional Products.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">If Gemini was an Additional Product rather than a core Service, Claude argued, then none of the addendum&#8217;s protections extended to my Gemini usage at all. Not the training prohibition, not the confidentiality obligations, not the CCPA provisions.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I took that analysis back to Gemini.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Gemini disagreed, and the disagreement was substantive.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">For Workspace customers with AI Ultra Access, Gemini argued, Gemini is not an Additional Product. It is a core Service integrated into Workspace. Every protection in the addendum therefore extends to my Gemini usage. The training prohibition in Section 5.2 restricts Google to processing data only to provide, secure, and monitor the Services. Because training a general AI model is legally distinct from providing a service to a specific customer, using my data for training would breach that provision regardless of how the product is labeled.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Gemini also responded to Claude&#8217;s concern about data retention. Claude had flagged a gap between Gemini&#8217;s claim of session-by-session clearing and the contract&#8217;s actual deletion timeline. Gemini characterized the relevant retention window as standard enterprise data processing language reflecting the time required to purge data from backup systems, not evidence of active retention or review, but evidence of routine operational process.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I put Gemini&#8217;s response back to Claude.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Claude&#8217;s answer was measured. The Service versus Additional Product question, Claude acknowledged, was a real argument and probably the right one. The documentation that would prove it is not anything either AI could provide. It has to come from Google itself.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">That sent me back to primary sources. What I found resolved the dispute.</p>
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<h2 class="text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold">What the Documents Actually Showed</h2>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Google&#8217;s Generative AI in Google Workspace Privacy Hub, updated March 13, 2026, states plainly that Gemini is a core Workspace service, that user prompts are Customer Data governed by the Cloud Data Processing Addendum, and that Google does not use that data to train or fine-tune its generative AI models without permission. No human review occurs without permission. These are not chatbot representations. They are Google&#8217;s published administrator documentation, explicitly linking AI Ultra Access usage to the same contractual framework that governs the rest of Google Workspace.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">The billing record that had initially seemed to complicate the analysis turned out to support it. AI Ultra Access appearing as a separate line item on a commercial invoice issued to the Law Offices of Wallace Francis PC established the account as a business-to-business relationship governed by Google&#8217;s commercial terms rather than a consumer click-through agreement. Combined with the Admin Console privacy commitment visible in my account settings, the documentation trail was complete.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I set conversation retention to 90 days in my Admin Console, the minimum period the Privacy Hub identifies as administrator-controllable, and saved the complete documentation set.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">What Claude had correctly identified as a gap turned out, on investigation, to be filled. The adversarial process worked exactly as intended. One AI identified the weakest point in the argument. The investigation of that point produced the document that answered it.</p>
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<h2 class="text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold">What the Argument Revealed</h2>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">What struck me most about this exchange was not the conclusion. It was the process.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">At every stage, both AI systems were clear about the limits of their own authority. Neither claimed to be a definitive source. Both pushed me toward primary documents. Both identified the same core principle independently: what matters legally is not what the AI says about the contract, but what the contract says about the AI.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">That epistemic modesty is actually useful for attorneys trying to use these tools responsibly. The tools are not trying to deceive you about their limitations. They will tell you, if you ask the right questions, exactly where their representations end and verified documentation begins.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">The adversarial structure also produced something I did not expect: a genuinely useful contract interpretation argument that I would have needed a technology attorney to develop on my own. The Section 5.2 training prohibition analysis, the Service versus Additional Product distinction, the CCPA prohibition on third-party disclosure. These are real legal arguments grounded in real contract language, and they emerged from a conversation that cost me an evening rather than a legal fee.</p>
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<h2 class="text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold">What Heppner Actually Decided — And What It Didn&#8217;t</h2>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Senior U.S. District Judge Jed S. Rakoff ruled in <em>Heppner</em> that the defendant&#8217;s AI-generated documents were not protected by attorney-client privilege or the work product doctrine. The defendant, a former CEO facing federal securities fraud charges, had used consumer Claude after receiving a grand jury subpoena to analyze his legal exposure. He later shared the AI-generated documents with his defense counsel. When the FBI seized his devices, he claimed protection.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">The court rejected the claims on three grounds. Claude is not an attorney and cannot form a privileged relationship. Anthropic&#8217;s consumer privacy policy destroys confidentiality by reserving the right to disclose user data to governmental authorities. And the defendant&#8217;s attorneys had never directed him to use Claude, which independently defeated the work product claim because that doctrine protects materials prepared at counsel&#8217;s direction, not materials a client independently generates.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">It is worth noting what <em>Heppner</em> is and is not. It is a single district court decision in the Southern District of New York, not binding on California courts, and its reasoning has genuine vulnerabilities. The court&#8217;s logic that a privacy policy permitting disclosure destroys confidentiality would, taken to its conclusion, apply equally to email providers, cloud storage services, and phone carriers, none of which courts have treated as privilege-destroying third parties. Rakoff did not meaningfully engage with those analogies.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">The more immediately useful counterpoint comes from <em>Warner v. Gilbarco</em> (E.D. Mich. Feb. 2026), decided the same month. There, the court denied a motion to compel discovery into a party&#8217;s use of AI tools in connection with litigation, holding that AI-assisted internal analysis and drafting were protected by the work product doctrine and that use of ChatGPT did not waive that protection absent disclosure to an adversary. The law is genuinely unsettled. <em>Heppner</em> and <em>Warner</em> are pulling in different directions, and appellate courts have not yet weighed in.</p>
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<h2 class="text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold">The Three Variables That Determine Privilege Risk</h2>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Taken together, <em>Heppner</em> and <em>Warner</em> establish that privilege risk from AI use turns on three variables operating simultaneously: who is using the tool, on what platform, and at whose direction.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Who is using the tool matters because client-side AI use is categorically more dangerous than attorney-side use. A client who independently enters privileged information into any AI platform creates disclosure risk regardless of what the attorney does. The <em>Heppner</em> court&#8217;s footnote noting that inputting privileged information into a consumer AI tool may waive privilege over the underlying attorney communications is particularly alarming in a family law context, where clients are often processing emotionally charged situations in real time and reaching for whatever tool is at hand. A client who types out what their attorney told them about asset division, or who uses AI to rehearse their deposition answers, may inadvertently waive protection over communications and strategy that took considerable effort to develop.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">What platform matters because the distinction between consumer and enterprise AI tools is not about features. It is about contractual commitments. Consumer tools generally reserve the right to use data for training and to disclose it to third parties. Commercial Workspace accounts with AI Ultra Access are governed by the Cloud Data Processing Addendum and Google&#8217;s Privacy Hub commitments, which contractually restrict those uses. What matters legally is not what the tool does by default, but what the signed contract requires.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Whose direction matters most for practical purposes. When counsel directs a client or staff member to use AI as part of litigation preparation, for a specific purpose, on an authorized platform, within a defined scope, the materials generated bear counsel&#8217;s strategic imprint and constitute absolute work product under California Code of Civil Procedure section 2018.030(a). Absolute work product cannot be pierced by any showing of good cause. That protection is categorically unavailable when AI use is client-initiated without counsel&#8217;s direction. The distinction between <em>Heppner</em> and <em>Warner</em> maps almost exactly onto this variable: unsupervised client use lost, counsel-directed use won.</p>
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<h2 class="text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold">The Subpoena Question</h2>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Family law practitioners should also think carefully about the practical mechanics of AI-related discovery disputes, because the subpoena is the instrument that makes this theoretical risk concrete.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">A subpoena to an AI company is not self-executing. The requesting party must establish good cause. A blanket demand for all AI prompts related to a case with no specific factual predicate is a textbook fishing expedition subject to a motion to quash under California Code of Civil Procedure sections 1985.3 and 1987.1, supported by California Constitution Article I section 1&#8217;s express right to privacy and the proportionality requirements of Code of Civil Procedure section 2017.020.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">The work product doctrine provides additional insulation for attorney-directed AI use. Prompts entered by an attorney, or by a client at counsel&#8217;s specific direction, reflect counsel&#8217;s mental impressions, legal theories, and litigation strategy in their most unfiltered form. That is the definition of absolute work product under California Code of Civil Procedure section 2018.030(a), and no good cause showing reaches it.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">If a subpoena arrives directed at your AI provider, move immediately. File both a motion to quash and a motion for protective order. Notify the AI company&#8217;s legal department directly that you are asserting privilege and work product protection over the subpoenaed records. Major technology companies have legal teams experienced in these disputes and will typically pause production pending court resolution if properly notified. Push hard for in camera review before any production is ordered.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">The realistic risk of a successful AI subpoena in an ordinary family law matter is substantially lower than the theoretical risk <em>Heppner</em> created. Most opposing counsel will not have the resources or inclination to pursue AI subpoena litigation. But the risk is real, it is growing, and the attorneys who have their documentation in order when it arrives will be in a categorically better position than those who do not.</p>
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<h2 class="text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold">What I Changed</h2>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">The argument between two AI systems produced a concrete action list that any solo practitioner can implement before the next client intake.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I added an AI use provision to my standard engagement letter. In plain English it tells clients not to enter any information about their matter into any AI tool without my specific prior written authorization, and explains that doing so could make that information available to the other side even if they delete it afterward. Clients understand this language. It takes five minutes to add and creates the documented notice that supports a privilege argument if AI use ever becomes an issue.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I implemented a practice of sending brief written direction whenever I instruct a client or staff member to perform any AI-assisted task connected to a matter. A one-line email documenting the specific task, the authorized platform, and that the work is being performed at my direction converts client AI use from an independent act that defeats work product protection into counsel-directed agency work that supports it.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">I located, reviewed, and saved my Google Cloud Data Processing Addendum, the March 2026 Privacy Hub documentation, and my Admin Console privacy settings confirmation. I set conversation retention to 90 days. These documents now live in a dedicated compliance folder. If privilege is ever challenged, I can point to specific contractual provisions, Google&#8217;s own published administrator documentation, and account settings I personally configured, rather than a chatbot&#8217;s representation.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">None of this took more than a few hours. All of it is defensible. The combination of a documented platform choice, a verified contractual framework, and written evidence of attorney direction provides a foundation for privilege and work product arguments that the <em>Heppner</em> defendant entirely lacked.</p>
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<h2 class="text-text-100 mt-3 -mb-1 text-[1.125rem] font-bold">The Broader Picture</h2>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">California&#8217;s duty of technological competence requires attorneys to understand the tools they use and their implications for client confidentiality. That duty does not require perfect knowledge of an evolving area of law. It requires reasonable inquiry, documented decision-making, and proactive steps to protect client interests as the law develops.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">This area is moving fast. <em>Heppner</em> was decided in February 2026 and is already generating significant commentary and litigation. Bar guidance is evolving. Appellate courts have not yet spoken. The attorneys who engage seriously with these questions now, rather than waiting for the law to fully settle, will be better positioned to protect their clients and themselves when the dust clears.</p>
<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]">Reasonable inquiry, it turns out, can include making two AI systems argue with each other about your contract. They will tell you things worth knowing, as long as you remember that the argument points you toward the document, and the document is where the protection actually lives.</p>
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<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"><em>Wallace Francis is a family law attorney licensed in California practicing in Santa Rosa. This article is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. The legal landscape around AI and attorney-client privilege is actively evolving; consult your state bar&#8217;s current ethics guidance for standards applicable to your specific practice. Case citations should be independently verified before use in any court filing.</em></p>
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<p class="font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]"><em>A note on methodology: This article was developed using the adversarial research process it describes. The legal conclusions, narrative direction, factual verification against primary source documents, and final editing were the author&#8217;s own. Structural drafting and contract analysis were assisted by Claude and Gemini, both operating within the contractually protected Workspace environment documented above. The irony of using AI to write about AI privilege was not lost on the author.</em></p><p>The post <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/i-made-two-ai-chatbots-argue-about-my-bar-license-heres-what-happened/">I Made Two AI Chatbots Argue About My Bar License. Here’s What Happened.</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com">Northern California Attorney Wallace Francis</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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		<title>How to catch a liar in a divorce case</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Wallace Francis]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Aug 2024 16:51:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[One of the salient features of family law cases is lying: parties lie, lawyers lie, witnesses lie. One of the other features is that people rarely get punished for it. The lying is so pervasive that it's often not possible for the court to sort out who is telling the truth without investing a  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling" style="--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;" ><div class="fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap" style="max-width:1248px;margin-left: calc(-4% / 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% / 2 );"><div class="fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column" style="--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;"><div class="fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column"><div class="fusion-text fusion-text-1"><p class="wp-block-paragraph">One of the salient features of family law cases is lying: parties lie, lawyers lie, witnesses lie. One of the other features is that people rarely get punished for it. The lying is so pervasive that it&#8217;s often not possible for the court to sort out who is telling the truth without investing a tremendous amount of time in reviewing the files, which is actually the best way to figure out who is telling the truth.</p>
<p>How do you spot a liar, and does it matter if you do? These are the two big questions.</p>
<p>1. Spotting a liar is not easy, but it also is far from impossible. </p>
<p>Reviewing documentation can provided direct evidence of a lie, for example bank statements showing money in an account that the person has previously denied exists. Or the absence of information in the bank statements which other documents shows must exist. Video evidence, social media evidence all can be powerful evidence. There is also statements by parties themselves which contradict themselves. For example, a party who claims they have earned $200 per month with $10,000 in expenses. Document everything.</p>
<p>The worst and most ineffective way to spot a liar is by use of intuition, which is there are some people who believe they have this god-given ability to determine a lie when they hear one. Studies show this is simply not true.</p>
<p>The second worse, and related, are the cues people can give while telling a lie. While some people will give off the appearance of lying by halting, mixing up their stories, or not giving eye contact, there is no evidence anyone can actually determine a lie by such means. It&#8217;s simply mythology, and unfortunately solidified in Evidence Code 780, which actually states demeanor is an important factor to determine veracity.</p>
<p>Does it matter if you do spot a liar? Well, it depends on the Judge. Some judges are not terribly interested in identifying a liar: they assume everyone is and are looking for a way to settle the case or make a quick decision that is probably just. Others see it differently. Turning a blind eye to rampant lying simply kicks the can down the road, and potentially creates successive generations of family law litigants. Unfairness stays with you, it can define your whole being and existence. When resolution, rather than justice, becomes the goal, people remember that.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><p>The post <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/how-to-catch-a-liar-in-a-divorce-case/">How to catch a liar in a divorce case</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com">Northern California Attorney Wallace Francis</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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		<title>Discovery, Domestic Violence and Family Code 6309: did the legislature really help?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jun 2024 17:01:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[As of Jan.1, 2024 a new law came into effect that clarifies existing ambiguity in the law regarding whether a party can engage in discovery in the context of Domestic Violence Restraining Order. Whereas before the answer depended upon what judge you went in front of and in what county, the new answer is  [...]]]></description>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">As of Jan.1, 2024 a new law came into effect that clarifies existing ambiguity in the law regarding whether a party can engage in discovery in the context of Domestic Violence Restraining Order. Whereas before the answer depended upon what judge you went in front of and in what county, the new answer is a qualified yes.</p>
<p>In my experience, the situation absolutely needed clarification and in my opinion, as I wrote years ago, the court should grant discovery in DVRO&#8217;s as a matter of right for the sake of everyone involved. The counterargument to that in terms of public policy is that it is desirable for such matters to not drag out and be expedited. Victims of DV, according to this line of thinking, do not need this hanging over their head unresolved and should not be subject to discovery abuse, even though there is likely already a TRO in place to protect the protected party as much as a permanent DVRO would.</p>
<p>The problem with that line of thinking is that courts ALREADY HAVE BROAD DISCRETION to deny or permit discovery on almost every issue, and you cannot even realistically appeal such orders. The court already had the power, prior to FC6309, to say &#8220;no&#8221;.</p>
<p>While the legislature clearly envisions victims of DV facing the kind of abuse often engaged in by attorneys in family law cases, that has not been my experience. The only discovery I have ever seen in a DVRO case was a deposition, which is a completely reasonable measure in almost every way since it informs both sides as to the strengths and weaknesses of their case and tests the truth in a way that should not be first tested at trial. The element of surprise is a very useful tool when dealing with people who are lying.  Likewise, a  convincing witness can convince an attorney very quickly that a trial is a bad idea.</p>
<p>Given the detailed mission statement found at the beginning of FC6309, it is very clear that the legislature has not considered the possibility that a DVRO itself can be a weapon in hands of an abuser. False accusations of DV are abuse, but it would seem there is not much political capital to be found in pointing that out.  The view from the trenches for me is a little different.</p>
<p>Now comes FC6309 which makes my cases in which I represent the abused no easier (for whatever reason, nobody has ever asked for discovery in cases where I represent the abused) but makes cases where I represent the falsely accused that much harder.</p>
<p>Now, according to this statute I have to actually appear at the trial for the first time, and in the middle of the trial ask for a continuance if I reach a place where I need discovery. I would not want to be representing someone facing false allegations in such an instance, I would not want to be the judge in that instance, but I would want to be the moving party since it places all the burden on everyone else, on the fly, in the middle of what is quite possibly a hotly contested trial. </p>
<p>I then have to argue &#8220;good cause&#8221; for any requests that I bring, after the other side has already had a preview of my potential evidence. Their story can then get better with the telling. I lose any advantage I may have in being able to surprise a witness who may not be telling the whole truth. And the reason for this is because there is a need for the abused to have this matter heard as quickly as possible, using the lowest standard of evidence available to us, which is the preponderance of the evidence.</p>
<p>Then, if there are children in the mix, that party who has achieved a DVRO as quickly possible, with no discovery permitted,using the lowest standard of evidence, then gets to argue that there is a presumption against joint or sole custody in favor of the person who is subject to the DVRO. Family Code 3044 arguably now creates serious due process issues for a party who has children and faces a DVRO where discovery is eliminated or truncated by a Judge&#8217;s decision.</p>
<p>While I am glad to see the legislature trying to fix the ambiguity of what discovery to permit, I think it would be have been smarter to provide for very limited discovery as a matter of right, in the form of a single deposition or small document demand. This &#8220;show your cards&#8221; statute is, in my opinion, a statute too easily abused and not really even that useful to the abused given the way these were already handled, at least in the counties I practice.  It solved one problem and created another.</p>
<p>False accusations of domestic violence are a form of domestic violence. When they are taken seriously, they make abused people less safe because they make abused people less likely to be believed by anyone who has seen a DVRO issued against someone they know is innocent. If we are truly interested in protecting abused parties, then we need to think carefully about measuring the balance between a quick decision and a well-informed decision based upon the available facts.  </p></p>
</div></div></div></div></div><p>The post <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/discovery-domestic-violence-and-family-code-6309-did-the-legislature-really-help/">Discovery, Domestic Violence and Family Code 6309: did the legislature really help?</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com">Northern California Attorney Wallace Francis</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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		<title>What happens when the abuser controls the children in a child custody case?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Apr 2024 18:17:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[One important aspect of any family law case is the relative competence of the attorneys involved, the therapists involved, the judicial officer, and if appointed, counsel for the minor children.  It is not safe to assume that any one of these people necessarily know what they are doing in terms of being able to  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div class="fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-3 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling" style="--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;" ><div class="fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap" style="max-width:1248px;margin-left: calc(-4% / 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% / 2 );"><div class="fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column" style="--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;"><div class="fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column"><div class="fusion-text fusion-text-3"><p>One important aspect of any family law case is the relative competence of the attorneys involved, the therapists involved, the judicial officer, and if appointed, counsel for the minor children.  It is not safe to assume that any one of these people necessarily know what they are doing in terms of being able to discern facts from fiction.</p>
<p>Assuming you have not hired an attorney to engage in a game of  who the best liar is, being able to get the truth across, and getting a judge to take notice of it, has a lot of challenges, among them several biases in favor of certain groups.</p>
<p>Among the most prevalent biases is favoritism toward the party who has at some point obtained an order for sole legal and physical custody.  This is a daunting advantage and if gained early on in the proceedings, becomes almost impossible to change for a variety of reasons.</p>
<p>Among the most important reasons is that a child who is completely controlled by one parent can be forced to say or do anything that parent wants.  For example, when a child suddenly becomes estranged from the parent  and cannot provide any plausible explanation, it should not be assumed their estrangement is the result of actual events.  There are large groups out there who have slogans such as &#8220;believe the children&#8221; which, on the surface, is something we all want to agree with. The reality is something different.  Children say things that are not true, and they say them often out of fear.</p>
<p>The technique used by the abusive parent goes like this: early in the proceedings, she or he starts to lobby the children, denigrating the other parent, threatening the children, using guilt or lies.  Once the children start to become estranged, the abusive parent might employ a therapist, delivering the children to the therapist after lengthy efforts to get to them to say what they want them to say.  Each time that same parent drops the child off with the therapist, they are carefully prepared by that parent to say the things they want them to say: usually some fabricated allegations of abuse of some kind that the targeted parent must then apologize for.</p>
<p>Even children who are abused want to see their parents. In one case, a child was beaten so severely he had bruises all across his body.  He still missed and loved his dad and was given visits three times a week only a few months after pleading guilty to injury to a child.</p>
<p>Another parent, having never done anything like this (and the mother being caught on video savagely beating the oldest some years back) has only one weekly visit for 8 hours, almost five years later.  Each time, incompetent minor&#8217;s counsel and incompetent therapists obsessively attack him for being &#8220;at war with reality&#8221; while making excuses for the mother.</p>
<p>In these cases, the sign that children are estranged for no apparent reason isn&#8217;t evidence of abuse by the &#8220;out&#8221; parent, it&#8217;s evidence of which parent they are afraid of, and that is the parent they have to live with.  The court process, having failed to protect the children from their abuser, then enlists the aid of various therapists or counsel for the minor children who are then told by the children what the &#8220;in&#8221; parent has told them to say.  What would you do if you were one of those children?  Would you challenge the parent who you know you are going home to live with? I know I wouldn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Although one would think it would be obvious to any impartial observer, all the prejudices and biases that come into play are present.  Among them is arrogance combined with ignorance.  The idea that a person can tell a liar by talking to them and using their intuition is a catastrophic mistake.  Ignoring video evidence of an abusive parent, making excuses for them, and believing that such a parent would only do that once is hard to defend.  But it happens.</p>
<p>We need to only look more deeply into this issues to realize that taking things at face value that children say is a very dangerous business.  Most of the time they are saying one thing but telling us another.  We just have to have the skills to actually listen.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div></p><p>The post <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/what-happens-when-the-abuser-controls-the-children-in-a-child-custody-case/">What happens when the abuser controls the children in a child custody case?</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com">Northern California Attorney Wallace Francis</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Mar 2024 19:01:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation and emotional abuse in which a person seeks to sow seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or in members of a targeted group, making them question their own memory, perception, or sanity. It is often employed by individuals who have Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) or other personality disorders.  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation and emotional abuse in which a person seeks to sow seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or in members of a targeted group, making them question their own memory, perception, or sanity. It is often employed by individuals who have Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) or other personality disorders. Credit to the Bay Area Cognitive Behavior Therapy Center for this information. Please see the link below for their piece. This is a GREAT article.</p>
<p>DARVO is an acronym that stands for Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender. It describes a manipulative tactic often used by abusers to avoid accepting responsibility for their actions and shift the blame onto their victims.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2020 00:54:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Video on Divorced Co-Parenting During Covid-19 A client of mine asked me to sit down and answer some questions about the challenges of divorced parenting during Covid-19. The video is below but keep in mind this is not an easy topic to address as there really is no set standard yet. Hopefully my answers  [...]]]></description>
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<p>A client of mine asked me to sit down and answer some questions about the challenges of divorced parenting during Covid-19. <a href="https://youtu.be/akGE9aFJfkM">The video is below</a> but keep in mind this is not an easy topic to address as there really is no set standard yet. Hopefully my answers are helpful for those trying to understand the nature of the family law situation as it relates to Covid-19. Stay safe.</p>
<h2>Links to Specific Questions</h2>
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<li><a class="yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto" spellcheck="false" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=akGE9aFJfkM&amp;t=0s">0:00</a><span class="style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto"> How has divorce and co-parenting changed since Covid-19? </span></li>
<li><a class="yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto" spellcheck="false" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=akGE9aFJfkM&amp;t=107s">1:47</a><span class="style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto"> Have parents refused to exchange kids due to Covid-19 concerns? </span></li>
<li><a class="yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto" spellcheck="false" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=akGE9aFJfkM&amp;t=142s">2:22</a><span class="style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto"> How have judges reacted to parents who refuse to follow Court Orders?</span></li>
<li><a class="yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto" spellcheck="false" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=akGE9aFJfkM&amp;t=190s">3:10</a><span class="style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto"> Have couples been pushed to divorce over disagreements on the danger of Covid-19?</span></li>
<li><a class="yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto" spellcheck="false" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=akGE9aFJfkM&amp;t=251s">4:11</a><span class="style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto"> Should divorced parents consider filing legal action against the other parent if they have health concerns?</span></li>
<li><a class="yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto" spellcheck="false" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=akGE9aFJfkM&amp;t=342s">5:42</a><span class="style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto"> Is co-parenting/parallel parenting a method to be used for resolving disputes?</span></li>
<li><a class="yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto" spellcheck="false" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=akGE9aFJfkM&amp;t=376s">6:16</a><span class="style-scope yt-formatted-string" dir="auto"> Are there are other options, besides going to Court, for couples who have major disagreements about the dangers of Covid-19?</span></li>
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<h2>Full Video</h2>
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</div></div></div></div></div><p>The post <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com/divorced-parenting-during-covid-19/">Divorced Parenting During Covid-19</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.wallacefrancis.com">Northern California Attorney Wallace Francis</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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